In this club, running is only part of the journey

On a cool brisk morning at the end of the fall season, a pack of young girls steps up to the line. Nervously awaiting the moment for which they have spent weeks training, a starting pistol fires, and they’re off.

Of these runners is nine-year-old Abby Maloney, who is running side-by-side with her mom and biggest supporter, Missie Maloney. The pair is running in their third 5K together. This time, Abby Maloney will run the entire distance, an accomplishment she never dreamed possible just a few years earlier. 

Abby Maloney and her mom, Missie Maloney
Abby Maloney and her mjom, Missie Maloney, have completed three 5k races together

“Her health was holding her back from many activities that she loved,” says Missie Maloney.

Diagnosed with Celiac Disease when she was five years old, Abby Maloney suffers severe stomach pain and is often left feeling fatigued. While the illness took a toll on her body, her family’s cross-state move from her hometown of Ann Arbor, Mich. to Fort Mills, S.C. took a toll on her confidence. A new town meant learning a new school and finding new friends – a daunting experience for any kid.

It wasn’t long before Abby Maloney and her mom discovered Girls on the Run, an after-school running club for girls between the 3rd and 8th grades. The organization trains young girls to run 5K races, but aims to teach them much more.

“It’s a place where girls learn that they can do anything they set their mind to,” says Lindy Morris, director of Girls of the Run in the “Tri-County” region of South Carolina.

Girls on the Run

Up to the Challenge

“That first 5K was a real challenge,” says Missie Maloney. “There were moments where Abby was afraid that come race day, she wouldn’t be able to finish it.”

For Abby Maloney and the other girls, that finish line is 10 weeks in the making. Running multiple times a week, girls train with a “running buddy” — often a parent, sister, friend or coach — for the goal of running 3.1 miles to give the girls what Morris calls “a tangible sense of achievement.”

“We became each other’s constant source of encouragement,” says Missie Maloney, who would talk to her daughter continuously throughout the run to distract Abby from her growing exhaustion.

Abby Maloney and her mom, Missie Maloney, complete another Girls on the Run race

When not urging her daughter to keep going, Missie Maloney says the two would get creative. “We would let our imaginations run wild envisioning our perfect house,” Missie said, sharing that Abby would insist that the house needed “a bathtub with a waterslide into a pool of candy.”

While a pool of candy is still on Abby’s wish list, she’s checking one big accomplishment off of another list: finishing her first 5K.

More Than a Running Club

For Abby Maloney – and other members of Girls on the Run – the 3.1 miles to the finish line is just part of the journey.  The nonprofit combines race training with curriculum that has more to do with the girl running than the race itself.

““It’s an empowerment program,” says Morris. The program encourages girls to pursue their dreams on and off the track. Girls on the Run, which started with a single running program in Charlotte, North Carolina in 1996 and has expanded into 200 locations across the country, served more than 185,000 girls in 2015 alone.

“We want to inspire girls to become independent thinkers, enhance their problem-solving skills and make healthy decisions,” Morris says.

Through running, girls learn how to set and achieve a goal. But that’s only part of the course. They also meet twice a week in small teams to learn life skills, including teamwork, community service and the value of relationships. And they learn to spread the positive messages throughout their networks.

One of Abby Maloney’s favorite activities (other than running) is an annual community service project that takes aim at one of the most troubling parts of childhood: bullying. Her team confronted the issue in a common bullying battleground: the school bathroom, where students are often able to gather outside of the watchful eye of adults and pick on their peers. To encourage kindness, the girls hung posters with compliments and other kind messages.

Community service project

“Sometimes people write bad things in the stalls, and we like to cover them up with nice things to make people feel good,” explains Abby Maloney, who added it was the talk of the school the following day. The group did the kind act anonymously and Abby says, “everyone was asking who did it. I felt like we helped people a lot.”

Empowering Others

While her school was abuzz about the girls’ act of kindness, the organization’s track record is getting its fair share of attention in the local community as well.

“I’ve watched the impact Girls on the Run has made in our local community, and I wanted to do something to fuel their efforts,” said Michael Crosby, local franchisee of Chick-fil-A at Baxter Village in Indian Land, South Carolina. Crosby nominated the Tri-County council of Girls on the Run for a Chick-fil-A Foundation True Inspiration Award, an honor given to approximately 20 nonprofits nationwide each year. Part of the honor includes a grant, ranging from $15,000 to $100,000. The Tri-County council of Girls on the Run received $75,000.

“This money will impact not only the girls in this program, but also their families, their schools and their communities,” says Morris, adding that the program is presently in six South Carolina school districts, with a goal to expand to underserved parts of the community. “I am just so excited to see what happens when we are able to invest more in our community and these girls.”

Morris hopes girls will take the lessons they learn through Girls on the Run and “pay it forward and teach others.”

Abby Maloney is already doing just that.

Girls on the Run

“She comes home from school and gets her neighborhood friends together and coaches her own little team,” says Missie Malone. Her little sister Sarah is part of that team, who says she wants to “run the whole thing, like Abby.”

While each girl is unique, there is one thing about them that is the same: nothing is holding them back.

“I’ve watched Abby’s confidence soar, simply by doing something she thought she couldn’t do,“ says her mom. “But I always knew she could.”

To locate a Girls on the Run council near you, search Find a Council on their website.

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